Friday, June 26, 2020

Religion, Wisdom and Happiness


What most of us desire in life is to live happily, and often as we try to satisfy this desire, we do encounter obstacles that make our efforts complicated. This can lead to frustration and causes us to suffer because it stands in the way of our satisfaction. Wisdom can help us to understand our suffering and to cope with it. Wisdom allows us to adapt and reason in the toughest of circumstances. Happiness then becomes achievable despite circumstances.

Religion is also another way of understanding our suffering, and it does serve the same purpose differently. What is the difference between these two – wisdom and religion? The main difference is the way both of these define the meaning of life and portray suffering. As per most concepts of religion, suffering comes from a state of worldly imperfection that directly contradicts the desire of humans for happiness. Life becomes meaningful only if it is a means to a heavenly end, and it requires a life of virtue to prepare for the bliss that comes after life. Hereafter has a transcendental nature that most people who have religion believe. It is this transcendental nature that does not allow man to come up up with any conclusive evidence.

Wisdom, however, is independent of religion, though in many ways it can complement it. Wisdom says that life has meaning, even if it is imperfect, and it is this imperfection that you need to accept. Value this imperfection, because gradually you will realize through wisdom that perfection itself is not infinitely desirable. Perfect happiness excludes any form of complication or suffering. Is that a condition that can ever exist? Happiness is more about grasping every opportunity with courage and being victorious over every obstacle that stands in the way of success. This victory can be strenuous, is often limited, and transitory, and may not even last for a long time.

We grow wiser as we constantly survive and get over the obstacles that life throws at us. It is this survival that is life and on what human sense is built. We need to be clear about our purpose in life if we want to be happy. It is only then that we can have the determination and passion that allows us to succeed in every endeavor so that you can achieve happiness.

Friday, April 19, 2019

Find Happiness In Retirement

Retirement is not the end but is merely the beginning of a new life, a new you. As such, it is nothing that should be dreaded or something that should cause you unnecessary stress. Instead, it should make you happy and can bring you a new sense of pleasure, if only you let it. In this article, well discuss ten ways that you can find happiness in retirement.
1. Be open and receptive Change your attitude and you will change your life. Retirement is simply a new phase of your life one that you can succeed and enjoy if you are open and receptive to doing so. It is a time to pursue your dreams, aspirations and make your dreams come true.
2. Plan physical and mental activities A busy mind is a happy mind. By staying physically and mentally active, you will lift your spirits and will be happier.
3. Laugh and have a fun time. Do not take yourself so seriously. By having fun and not taking life too seriously, you can lift your mood and make yourself and others happy.
4. Do not be too introverted. Share your burdens with those who love and care about you. This is not to say that you should be a worry wart but by revealing your innermost thoughts and feelings, you can positively affect your mental state.
5. Pursue stimulating activities. Figure out the things that you enjoy doing and do more of them. For instance, if you enjoy spending quality time with your grandchildren, plan play dates or other activities with them.
6. Brush up your knowledge An educated mind is a happy mind. By expanding your learning horizons, you can become happier.
7. Spend quality time with loved ones Now that you are retired, you have even more time to spend with those you love. Plan lunch dates or throw a party for family and friends so that you can spend quality time with the people that mean the most to you.
8. Remember the little things mean a lot. Do something nice for someone and you will feel good about yourself. Take some time to write someone a note telling them how much they mean to you. Spend time with a friend or ailing relative or engage in some type of volunteer activity.
9. Fulfill your dreams Consider fulfilling those dreams you had shelved on your way to building a career for yourself. This can be very satisfying.
10. Maintain a positive mental attitude Do not vegetate just because you have retired. This is the fastest way to breakdown. Maintain a youthful attitude. Take up some hobby and remain active, mentally and physically.
In conclusion, retirement is a time when you can be tremendously happy and fulfilled. You can ensure that this is true by maintaining a positive mental attitude, fulfill your dreams, remember that little things mean a lot, spend quality time with others, brush up on your knowledge, pursue stimulating activities, do not be too introverted, laugh and have a great time, plan mentally engaging activities, and be open and receptive to experiencing the good life after retirement.